Secret codes hidden in antique jewellery spell romance

Adornments of affection were at their height in Victorian times, but the tradition of giving jewellery as love tokens dates back as far as the Georgian era.

Inez Stodel gold pendant with diamonds and rubies

By Beth Bernstein 

Secret codes in gemstones, words and motifs were all adornments of affection that reigned supreme in the aptly named Romantic Period (1837-1860) of the Victorian age. Yet, almost all of this symbolic antique jewellery endured from the Georgian era and lived on throughout the 1900s. 

In the 20th century, the Duke and Duchess of Windsor’s entire romance could be told through jewels. There was the early Cartier diamond and ruby heart charm that contained the message “The Heart Has Its Reasons”, which became the title of the Duchess’s memoir. Meanwhile, secret inscriptions, meaningful motifs and coloured gemstones bespoke the couple’s intimate love story. 

Back in the Regency and Georgian eras, Acrostic jewellery, in which the first letter of each gemstone spells out a word of affection, spread throughout Europe after French jeweller Jean-Baptiste Mellerio designed pieces for Napoleon Bonaparte. The gems spelled out messages and important events, leading to Acrostic symbolism crossing the channel and time periods, and appearing in Victorian lockets, brooches and rings, spelling out words such as Regard, Dearest and Love. 

Read more about Acrostic jewellery here

The entwined initials of AEI offered another sentimental code, which translated from Greek and stood for Amity, Eternity and Infinity. Romantic symbols flourished during Victorian times - the meaning of hearts changed with the motifs with which they were combined: double hearts with a bow on top spoke of two hearts tied together; a crown-topped heart suggested ruler of my heart; and a flame above a heart stood for burning passion. Love was also portrayed in Cupid’s bow and arrow, and padlocks for which only the lover held the key. A swallow in flight meant “safe home” and, if carrying a forget-me-not in its mouth, signified “I am thinking of you until I return”. 

Miniature portrait brooches also featured in the Victorian era, from which the lover’s eye was born. These were said to originate from when the Prince of Wales, later George IV, found a discreet way to send his rumoured lover a token of his affection, while preserving anonymity. These became the most secret of mementos during the 19th century. 

Lyon’s jeweller Alphonse Augis created a favourite pendant among collectors, based on a line from a poem that Rosemonde Gérard wrote to her husband Edmond Rostand, author of Cyrano de Bergerac: “Aujourd’hui plus qu’hier et bien moins que demain”, which translates as “For, you see, each day I love you more, today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow”. The poem was published in 1890 and Augis created a medallion in 1907 with part of the verse engraved on it. It soon became a coded message in which the words plus and moins were replaced by a diamond + sign and a – sign, set with baguette-cut synthetic rubies or sapphires.

By collecting and combining these antique jewellery keepsakes, you can create your own romantic language of love.

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